"I
have commited no crime. My only "sin"
was to be born in the wrong body. Forced into
the open, I will speak out for transsesxuals
everywhere, and I will continue to fight a
government that allows its doctors to perform
gender reassignment surgery, but refuses to
acknowledge those who benefit from that technology."
Caroline
Cossey
Caroline
Cossey was born on August 31, 1954 and attended
school in Norfolk, England. At the age of
13 she came to realized that she was unlike
other boys and, by the age of 15 or 16, she
understood that, although she had male external
genitalia, she was female. In July 1972 she
abandoned her male names and assumed the name
of Caroline, a change which she confirmed
by deed poll in March 1973.Since
July 1972 she was known under that name for
all purposes, dressed as a woman and adopted
a female role. She left home and worked as
a showgirl in London and Paris. In December
1974, having had previously taken hormones
and had an operation for breast augmentation,
she underwent SRS at the Charing Cross Hospital
in London. In 1976 she was issued with a United
Kingdom passport as a female.
Caroline's
career took off after her SRS. From about
1979 to 1986 she was a successful fashion
model, featuring regularly in newspapers,
magazines and advertisements. Her big break
came in 1980 when she was cast in the Bond
film For Your Eyes Only.
The Sunday tabloid rag The News of the World
outed Caroline soon after the release of the
film in 1981. She was devastated - any opportunity
for a normal, successful life as a glamour
model and actress wrenched away from her in
one weekend.
She
was hounded by the press, persecuted by tabloid
journalists and photographers asking unbelievably
ignorant questions. Caroline made the decision
to take it head on. She published her 1982
book, Tula: I am a Woman, which sought in
straightforward terms to defuse the situation
by telling the story in full, from her point
of view. If anything, the press coverage intensified,
but now it was largely sympathetic pieces
in organs like The Sunday Times. Eventually,
Tula was able to return to modeling. But the
damage to her film career was beyond repair.
In
1983 Caroline and Count Glauco, an Italian
national whom she had known for some fourteen
months, fell in love and wished to marry each
other.
By
letter of 22 August 1983, the Registrar General
informed them that such a marriage would be
void as a matter of English law, because it
would classify her as male notwithstanding
her anatomical and psychological status. Her
Member of Parliament advised her in a letter
of 30 August 1983 that a change in the law
would be required to enable her to marry.
A reply on behalf of the Registrar General,
dated 18 January 1984, to a further enquiry
by Caroline stated that she could not be granted
a birth certificate showing her sex as female,
since such a certificate records details as
at the date of birth.
British
law regards gender reassignment as merely
a cosmetic procedure, and the changes in legal
status allowed are accordingly cosmetic. Caroline
was allowed to be called female on her passport,
and.. that was about it. To all intents and
purposes, in the eye of the law, she was and
is still male.
In
1983, she began legal proceedings against
he British government to get the legal status
of transsexuals changed. The process was to
drag on for seven years and go through successively
higher levels of the judiciary until it reached
the European High Courts in Strasbourg in
1989.
Campaigning
tirelessly for transsexuals' rights, and appearing
countless times in the media her relationship
with the Count suffered and they separated.
Caroline
met Elias Fattal in 1985 qnd they became engaged
in 1988, they were. On May 21, 1989, Caroline
and Elias married, at a synagogue in St. John's
Wood, London. The European High Court had
ruled in her favour a shortly before, so she
was now legally allowed to marry, although
the British government had immediately lodged
an appeal. After honeymooning in the Caibbean,
Caroline returned to discover the tabloid
rags were at it again. Elias' orthodox family
immediately summoned him to account for his
marriage to Caroline. Sadly their marriage
fell apart on 11 June of the same year.
Following
a petition filed by Caroline, who had been
advised that this was her only means of obtaining
financial relief, the marriage was, by decree
nisi made by the High Court on 17 January
1990, pronounced to have been by law void
by reason of the parties not being respectively
male and female. That decree was made final
on 13 March 1990.
Caroline
again attempted to cope by writing, publishing
her second book, a autobiography called "My
story" in 1990. The
British government's appeal against the Strasbourg
ruling came to court, this time, the court
ruled in the government's favour.
Today,
Tula has resumed her modelling career and
is married, to Canadian, David Finch. Together
they are happily living in the United States
and is very active in the transsexual community
in England and around the world.
Comment:-
A real pioneer and beautiful woman - a combination
to be proud of. Thank you Caroline
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